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Getting Ready To Have A Second or Third Child

Preparing to have a child can be quite a fun time but it can also be stressful. Each pregnancy is different with some being quite difficult and others being slightly less difficult as we all know being pregnant is hard. Getting ready to have another child comes with some new and some of the same challenges. The following are some things you can do to prepare for having another child.

Write Out a Realistic Budget

By your second or third child you will have an understanding of how much a new child in the family will cost. Having another child shouldn’t impact your other children negatively though. Being financially stable enough to have a child and not sacrifice your quality of life is important. If a child sees a drop in the quality of life after a sibling is born they can harbor hostility because in actuality things were better before their sibling was born. Don’t bring a child into a world of living paycheck to paycheck as this added stress can lead to a hostile home environment for your children.

Baby Shower

The fact is that your list of people invited to your first child’s baby shower might be much different from this shower. Inviting important people in your life is absolutely necessary. Some of these people might not get along for one reason or another. It is important to stress to both parties that neither will be invited if problems arise. This isn’t a day to solve or start drama but rather celebrate another child being brought into the world in a matter of weeks. Plus a day to stock up on baby supplies for free!

The Gender Reveal

The gender reveal is different for each couple as one party might want to know while the other wants it to be a surprise. By the 2nd or 3rd child this might dissipate a bit as you might already have a boy as well as a girl. This is something that is exciting for the rest of the family and something that can be shared on social media as well. Revealing the gender sometimes comes with a party that is additional to the actual babyshower. There are things like 10 inch gender reveal sparklers to make your announcement unforgettable. You can find these at for an affordable price.

Checklist For What You Have and What You Need

You will be able to use things from your first child again for your next child. The crib is a perfect example of something that can be put back into use. Getting a checklist of things that you need combined with things that you already have can help you efficiently purchase what is needed for the coming of the child. Checklists don’t have to be done immediately but they should be complete within the last month of pregnancy as it can be unpredictable when the baby will come.

As you can see there are plenty of things to think about even if you have already had a child. Preparation is paramount as being unprepared can make having a child extremely stressful. Prepare and hope for the best as all parents do.



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