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Real Mom Stories - Talking About My Generation
Closing the gap in managing four generations of women in the workplace at the same time.
 
By: Seema Nayyar, Photo: Peter Lamastro



Linda Leonard of Bristol Myers-Squibb with Rachel, 9, and Nathan, 5.


Today, four generations of women converge in the workplace for the first time. Companies are scrambling to meet their divergent needs as they rethink how we can all work together.
 

General Mills hosted a conference for its female sales team last November, it was full of fun and games. Literally. In addition to seminars and speakers, the food products manufacturer rolled out a board game called "Leading Through the Generations" to teach employees about the distinct work and communication styles of coworkers. Leaders in the sales division's training group invented the game to open up a dialogue among staffers of different ages. "The game helped me under-stand how to motivate the individuals I work with," says Shari Sauer, 43, a national accounts manager for General Mills, who attended the forum. "As a manager, I learned it's okay for people to have different methods for getting a job done. It's important to be open and flexible, and let employees accomplish their tasks using their own framework."

General Mills isn't alone in concocting creative ways to energize and connect its employees. Today, the U.S. workplace boasts four different generations of women. While this diversity is a source of strength for women in the workplace, it's also creating new challenges around the conference room table. Older bosses, for example, who are used to certain ways of working, are sometimes uncomfortable with younger employ-ees who demand greater autonomy and flexibility. Recognizing the need to manage these diverse perspectives, Working Mother 100 Best Companies like General Mills are leading the charge to mesh the varied work and communication styles of all four generations. The reason: As the war for skills-based workers heats up over the next few years, firms with a greater understanding of their employees will have a critical edge in attracting new recruits and retaining experienced executives.

"This is a business imperative," says Annette Merritt Cummings, vice president and national director of diversity services for Bernard Hodes Group, a New York City recruitment communications company. "Organizations are trying to get a handle on how they can minimize conflict and foster teamwork, and how they can begin to plan the transition in management from one generation to the next. We're increasingly seeing more interest in this among employers."

Indeed, forward-thinking companies such as the 100 Best are at the vanguard of managing this change. General Mills has rolled out its board game to 1,000 sales employees so far—with an eye toward expanding it to more staffers. Bristol-Myers Squibb included generational issues in its management training programs over the past two years. IBM began offering voluntary multigenerational diversity workshops to all employees in May, as well as training for managers. And Merrill Lynch and Dow Chemical have found a shared desire among the generations for flex work and are educating managers about how to incorporate more flexibility into the workplace.
"It's a diversity challenge," says Natalie Augustin, director and head of campus recruiting for Merrill Lynch's global infrastructure solutions unit. "Before, the discussion was about gender and race. Now we're looking at diversity more broadly, and generations are part of that. The firms that are out in the forefront of this are the ones that are going to succeed. The ones that aren't will have trouble attracting talent."

Work Ethic Clashes
It's a tall order when your talent has widely divergent expectations and attitudes about the workplace. The oldest workers, typically called Traditionalists or Veterans (ages 62 to 77), expected to work in the same company for their entire career and leave with a gold watch and a pension, says Stephanie Marston, a family therapist and workplace consultant. Baby Boomers (ages 43 to 61), the largest generation, are the group that forced the workplace to include more women and multicultural employees. The vast size of this generation, with its willingness to rebel against societal norms, gave it unprecedented power and influence. Boomers are workaholics who "live to work" and believe that you earn your stripes by putting in face time. In contrast, Gen Xers (ages 31 to 42), the smallest generation, place less value on hierarchy and loyalty to a specific organization. They "work to live" and believe that work, although fulfilling, should not define one's life. Then there's Gen Y, also called Millennials (ages 13 to 30), the techno-literate children of the Boomers. After watching their workaholic parents get downsized from high-powered jobs, they're more devoted to their own careers than to any one company. Says Marston: "The four generations all have different work ethics and value systems. That doesn't mean the younger generations don't work hard. They just work in different ways."

These dissimilar approaches to work can cause confusion—even resentment—among women of the four generations.

As senior director of diversity and work/life at Bristol-Myers Squibb, Stacey Gibson, a Boomer, oversees several Gen X and Gen Y employees. While Stacey, 56, prides herself on maintaining an open dialogue among the spirited personalities in her department, generational differences have cropped up in subtle ways. For instance, there was the time Gen Xer Linda Leonard, diversity and work/life associate director, wanted to create a one-stop shopping guide for Bristol-Myers employees about all HR questions—even those not directly related to her department. (Severance, for example, is handled through benefits.) Stacey and Linda batted around the idea for a few weeks until Linda, 38, became upset with the ongoing discussion and Stacey's apparent unwillingness to create the guide. Surprised by Linda's reaction, Stacey realized that the issue wasn't just the guide but rather how each of them tackles a specific problem.

"Linda as an Xer wants to chart a new course, throw out the system and create something brand-new," explains Stacey. "I want to leverage what's good within the system to make something better." Adds Linda, a mom 0f three children, Rachel, 9, Nathan, 5, and Jack, 7, who has Pelizaeus-Merzbacher disease, a rare central nervous system disorder: "I tend not to see structure. I simply focus on whatever is necessary to get the job done. I don't pay attention to hierarchy. I feel free to ask questions and raise issues, and don't see it as questioning authority."

There are nuances in how the generations work differently, and it takes enlightened managers to accept their employees' varying work styles. For example, Generations X and Y, in a push for more efficiency, want to do much of their work through emails, blogs and webcasts; Boomers prefer face-to-face collaborations around a conference room table. Stacey, for example, has learned to accept that Gen Xer Stacy Wittekind, 34, a diversity and work/life manager, would rather spend 20 minutes going back and forth on email answering a question than pick up the phone and talk about it. Explains Stacy: "I don't trust that the phone call will be official. I need something in writing to make sure it doesn't come back to bite me."

Common Ground
Even with these dissimilarities about how they work, the generations generally agree about what they want from work, especially when it comes to family-friendly benefits. Boomer moms feel they've made huge sacrifices—namely, family time with their now-Gen Y children—to make the workplace more family-friendly. But they don't begrudge younger working moms—or anyone, for that matter—who want to continue to push the same agenda.

"As Boomer women, we had a do-it-all mentality: have a great career, kids, make it look seamless even if that meant pretending there wasn't a crisis going on at home," says Lynne C. Lancaster, coauthor of When Generations Collide and cofounder of BridgeWorks, a consultancy on generational issues in the workplace. "Gen X women are more out there with it, saying, 'I'm nursing. If you need me, I'll be in the lactation room.' There's a real gain that's happened over the past twenty years. Boomer women feel proud we were able to fight for those things but also feel the younger generations don't appreciate what it was like then."

Stacey echoes that sentiment. "When Boomer women came into the workforce, we changed it. We gave up a lot for our careers. The younger generations are saying, 'I'm not going to give up my life,'" she says. "Sure, there may be a bit of jealousy on our part that we did give up some of the personal side for the work side. But I'm thrilled that Gen X and Gen Y women walk into a workplace that's much more accepting."

Linda, for her part, is grateful for the path Boomers carved. "If I had entered the workforce then, I would have been so overwhelmed," she says. "Those initial hurdles would have seemed insurmountable. But these women said, 'Let's shake this institution to the core and let women and people of color into the workforce, and then let's rearrange things to accommodate us now that we are here.' That was a Herculean task, but now our potential knows no bounds."

My Way or the Highway
In fact, some among the youngest generation don't even see the proverbial glass ceiling. Whereas Boomers distinctly saw one path and a necessary choice between either working or staying at home, Generations X and Y are supremely confident that they can suspend a traditional corporate life for children and then rejoin the workforce when they're ready, says Bernadette Kenny, chief career officer for Adecco North America, a human resources and staffing company. "The younger generations do not view it as an either/or situation," says Kenny, 56, a Boomer. "They view it as a point in time: I'll stay out of the workforce for a few years and then I'll go back."

Kizzy Maitland, a diversity and work/life manager at Bristol-Myers, embraces this "work my way" approach. Kizzy, a single 28-year-old Gen Y, doesn't have a hierarchical view of the workplace and takes much more ownership of her career than many older workers. She regularly lunches with people outside her department to broaden her network. "If I'm just sitting at my desk working hard, my manager will know about it, but no one else outside the department would know what I'm doing," Kizzy says. "It's about marketing my skills, staying connected to the business, keeping up with what else is happening in the organization and sharing with people what I'm learning and doing in my role. If you're not paving your own way, you're not going to get other opportunities."

Kizzy joined Bristol-Myers four years ago after weighing other offers. One of her main considerations: the company's commitment to work/life. If she chooses to pursue continuing education—or even if she needs to work from home one day—Kizzy feels comfortable the decision will be supported by her manager. "The flexibility offered by Bristol-Myers definitely contributes to my desire to have a long career with the company," she explains. "In some companies, if an unmarried staffer leaves at 5:30 p.m., a manager might ask, 'Why is the single person leaving so early?' But we Millennials are just as interested in our personal pursuits as anyone else."

In Bristol-Myers employee surveys, flex ranks among the top benefits for all age groups. The pharmaceutical giant started formally offering flex work arrangements in 2000; today, 12% of its 17,000 workers use formal flex options, such as job-sharing. Another 67% have informal flex arrangements, which in Kizzy's case means sometimes working from home.

Because having flexibility at work requires support from the top, in 2005 Bristol-Myers launched a training program for new managers that aims, among other things, to facilitate an understanding of varying work styles, including how to bridge generational differences. This year, the company also began rolling out voluntary diversity workshops that debunk stereotypes. Among the ideas they challenge: Mature workers are not receptive to new ways of working and learning, including the use of new technology.

The Spice of Work/Life
Working through such generational biases and assorted approaches to work isn't only good for business, it also boosts morale. Even IBM, which launched its work/life programs in the 1950s, has learned to incorporate the work styles of younger generations. The company created a tip sheet five years ago to help managers communicate and connect with other generations, says Maria Ferris, director of global workforce diversity programs. The tips include avoiding generational stereotypes and playing to the unique strengths of each generation. Since then, IBM has tweaked some existing programs to incorporate new work habits. For example, employees can now choose to attend training seminars via webcast rather than in person. The firm also trains its supervisors to manage multigenerational teams.

In recent years, IBM has initiated blogging, which a manager, who may be working with dozens of people on a project, can use for collaborations—especially with Gen Y's, who typically have an increased desire for feedback and involvement in decision-making. Says Ferris: "It's not necessarily about creating something brand-new. Instead, it's about evolving programs that pertain to all of our employees across the generations."

For Patty Dudek, 48, teaming up with Chelita Love, 31, is proof that two generations are better than one. As an HR executive for IBM's software business, Chelita helps Patty, vice president of WebSphere Development, by providing strategic guidance on workforce development programs for the 1,000 employees Patty manages worldwide. Last year, when Patty mentioned she wanted to offer more career opportunities to her employees in emerging countries, Chelita suggested creating virtual mentoring sessions so that workers around the world could communicate. Patty says she herself would probably have taken a more traditional approach of sending an experienced manager to specific countries to mentor and train locally. "Chelita came up with a long-term solution," says Patty. "She brings a different perspective."

Not just A Working-Mom Issue
At Merrill Lynch, the generational discussion has fueled a whole new attitude toward flex work. The financial services company held its first generational training session in October 2006 and plans to hold more. It has also increased its push to educate managers on how to incorporate flex options into the workplace in an effort to reposition the benefit as something more than a working-mom issue, says Deborah Tsai-Munster, a director in the diversity and inclusion group.

Merrill Lynch's push to allow more flex work arose directly out of a need to better recruit and manage young employees. Over the past few years, the firm's recruiters have witnessed enormous changes taking place on college campuses. Prospective employees now ask work/life questions that never came up before, such as "Can I go to the gym during lunch?"

Recruiters like Natalie Augustin now routinely receive calls from the parents of job candidates asking, for example, why their sons didn't get the job. Augustin has even seen parents accompany their children to interviews. "I'm a staunch Gen Xer," says Augustin, 40. "It was an eye-opener to sit in an interview and ask, 'Why do you want to work at Merrill?' and the person says, 'My mom thinks it's a good company.' My first reaction was 'They can't think on their own.' Now, we try to get managers to understand the context in which they're raised. Parents are an integral part of their lives."

So much so, in fact, that the company is piloting a Parents Day for Millennials. A Boomer recruiter came up with the idea of inviting parents to the office to show them what their children would be doing during their summer internships.

Merrill Lynch's focus on flex work is popular with all generations. Last year, employees on the email review team (who read company correspondence searching for policy violations) were offered a chance to compress their schedules and get every tenth day of work off. Of the 33 people on the team, 27 participated in this option, and everyone has varying start and finish times. As a Boomer manager, Rebecca Saltern, 47, director of Merrill's central business review unit, was doubtful that a whole department on a flex schedule could be managed without creating chaos. Now, the experience has made her a believer. "When I first heard about the idea, I was skeptical," she says. "But I decided to try it, keep an open mind and see how this could work. If it affected our output or the quality of our reviews, I couldn't allow it. In fact, the team is functioning well, and we're meeting our goals every month."

Passing the Baton
Holding on to valued employees is one of the reasons Dow Chemical is championing flex work. Some 40% of its U.S. employees are eligible to retire (at age 50, after ten years of service) in the next five years—an opportunity and a threat, according to Julie Fasone Holder, Dow's corporate vice presi-dent of HR, public affairs, and diversity and inclusion. It's a threat if Dow allows experienced workers to leave without transferring their knowledge. It's an opportunity if the company restages its workforce and allows business to grow without having to downsize in the United States. Half of Dow Chemical's 43,000 employees are in the States today, but the company is growing at double-digit rates in emerging economies such as Asia. Its hope: to use experienced employees who want to work on a project basis to train workers here and abroad.

Last year, after 33 years at Dow Chemical, Susan Carrington, 55, was set to retire as vice president and director of one of the company's largest manufacturing sites. However, CEO Andrew Liveris asked her to reconsider and instead work in a different role with more flexibility. Today, as vice president and director of enterprise risk management, Susan works from home. "I have the flexibility to be on the phone late at night talking to a colleague in a different time zone. And now I can also pick up my daughter from school," says Susan, mom to two teens.

Still, for many women today, a flex schedule continues to carry a stigma—that they're not working hard enough or are not committed enough to their careers or the organization. Even those managers who allow flex work for a select few employees have difficulty understanding how to make it work on a larger scale. Dow Chemical's Fasone Holder, 54 and mother of two girls, acknowledges that flex work can turn into a mess if it's not implemented well. Over the past year, Dow Chemical has begun workshops where managers can share what has and hasn't worked in terms of getting work done and effectively managing diverse schedules.

There is also a worry among managers that flex will hurt productivity. However, anecdotal evidence suggests that there is an initial surge in productivity in the first year. Then it levels off, with no huge increase or decrease. Says Fasone Holder: "What you gain are things that are harder to measure, like an employee who has more energy."

What's changed at Dow Chemical is not so much how productive employees are but rather how productivity itself is measured. Today, managers are held accountable for making the shift to flex "cost neutral," or keeping quality and service high without increasing head count or over-time. The company has introduced a "performance manage-ment culture" focused on results rather than hours worked. Still, Fasone Holder acknowledges that "this is a cultural mindset shift for forty-somethings. We have to understand this as leaders and be willing to learn and to change."

Indeed, the way we do business today is still built around the Boomer model in which presence equals performance, says Margaret Regan, president and CEO of the FutureWork Institute, a consulting firm that deals with diversity work/life issues and future workplace trends.

"We're at a crossroads now," Regan says. "The Gen X and Gen Y pairing will actually change the workplace around the issues of work/life benefits. It won't be overnight, and it won't be programmatic change, but it will involve rethinking the way we work, where we work and when we work." And now, with four generations of women under the same corporate roof, there's also a rethinking of how we all collaborate together.

Generational Snapshot

Traditionalists or Veterans    
Ages 62-77   
Believed they'd work for the same company their entire career.

Baby Boomers    
Ages 43-61   
"Live to work" and believe in putting in face time at the office.

Gen Xers   
Ages 31-42   
"Work to live" and believe that work should not define their lives.

Gen Y's or Millennials   
Ages 13-30    
Their motto: "Work my way."
Devoted to their own careers, not to their companies.

 
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