Mark your calendar. Plan a midweek vacation day for the two of you. That’s right. Book a hotel room just for the day. Let the kids stay with the sitter or go off to camp. Throw a few sexy things in a bag. Order room service for lunch. (BYO champagne or wine so this is not a total budget buster!)  And enjoy the cool air conditioning and a clean room that you can walk away from at the end of the day!