A couple of weeks ago I asked how far a working mother would go in the bedroom for her husband if she realized he would consider straying if he wasn't consistently not satisfied. All year 50 Shades of Gray has been the big exciting book and buzz around for women. Mommy porn is what it has been affectionately called. I have personally not read any of the books yet - but I have definitely heard and seen the feedback between personal discussions and social media responses from my friends. There definitely seems to be two differen positions - much like the recent elections. Either women were completely turned on and getting it on with their husbands, or they are completely turned off. I still wonder which side of the fence I would be on, but a former lover told me that I would be bored because there isn't much that could surprise me! Haha!
It's true that I am incredibly open about sex and sexual experiences. I love to talk about it with other people. I love to see what people will say and/or do. People that know me say I can get anyone to talk about sex within a matter of 5 minutes of meeting me. I also have friends that will tell me things that they have never told anyone. One of my friends actually told me that the way she finally went into labor was by putting on a little mommy porn and pleasuring herself to orgasm which through her into labor. A highly and enjoyable technique if you ask me!
I have noticed recently that my sex drive has been on overdrive. I don't know what has happened, but I am not complaining. After baby #1 - it was gone. I had little to no interest. I felt bad for my husband because I constantly turned him down, but I didn't even want any type of touching!
Sometime during this pregnancy, I started wanting sex and I haven't stopped. It's great! I don't know if my hormones changed because of the baby or because I am over 40. I don't know why stress in the past made me not want to be touched, but now I seem to be running on shear hormonal bliss. I am beginning to feel like I am experiencing the 50 Shades of Carla!
And the even better thing about all of this...I have been fixed, so I won't get pregnant! Of course, my luck, something didn't work correctly with the tubal ligation and I will be knocked up when I am 45. Ok, that might knock the hormonal bliss right out of me!