Children can learn how to have a great handshake and smile.  It’s important to teach them how to greet people warmly and with enthusiasm. It’s far better to teach them this skill early on rather than trying to undo bad habits when they are in high school. 

As they get older, a strong and confident handshake is essential. They will be shaking hands with teachers, professors, coaches, college admissions officers, and potential employers. The handshake is one major factor in creating a terrific first impression.  Young children enjoy practicing shaking hands too so why not work on it now?

According to Michael True, author of InternQube: Professional Skills for the Workplace, the handshake is a big component of the first impression.  Michael’s advice: “After the initial visual impression of your appearance, you will probably be judged on your handshake. There are a few different kinds.” In Michael’s book he goes on to describe the Limp Fish, the Bone Crusher and the Firm Hand in an appropriate amount of detail.

If you have a senior in high school or a college student at your home, make sure they have a great handshake, smile and attitude to warmly greet everyone they meet. You want your student to exude confidence and poise. A first impression is often the most lasting one. 

Michael True has many other great tips for students in his book.  The professional skills that we all take for granted need to be explained to young people. Consider this book as a great primer to help them as they start working or hired for internships. Meanwhile, get the younger kids practicing their greeting skills today!