Have there even been periods in your lifge when you have felt that you are just plain stuck? You may feel as if you can't get your motor running and it's easier just too let life happen. In you mind you thin about the many things you could or should be doing. But you just don't have the energy to do so. During these time you may even feel as if one just runs into the next without any effort on you part. You may also feel like your living life just going through the motion.

When I have experienced these feelings I would fell like I was stuck in one place; almost like I was glued in place. Even though I had these feelings it was important that I wouldn't allow myself to surrender to being glued in place. I had to remind myself that I had the coice and and the power to become unglued.

Each of us is endowed with personal power and there are certain circumstancces and situations that we can control. We have the power to choose to take control of our life or we can continue to let our lives to take control of us.

I will admit there are times when I have felt that it was much easier to go with the flow and accept whatever life happened to bring my way. I would temporarily allow myself to just be glues in place and I would react to my circumstances. The danger with this strategy is that staying glued in place and in reactionary mode did not allow me to claim my personal power to actually design my life.

To get unstuck I had to first realize that I was actually glued in place. I could no longer be content with the comfort that came with being glued in place. If I wanted to be in charge of my life I had to accept that making changes would and could mean that I would feel uncomfortable. However, I had to remember that the rewards of being ungluded far outweighed the comfort that of being glued in place.

Becoming unglued meant that I had to devise a plan of action. I started out by making a list of 5 intentions that I wanted to accomplish. I didn't develop a long plan of action because I wanted to set myself up for success. My self confidence would strengthen each time I accomplish one of my intentions. This would give me the courage to continue to formulate and devise a plan for my day, week, month and year.

The reality is that from time to time there will be periods when we find ourselve glued inplace. But the critical think to remember is that each of us can change our circumstances and do something about it! We don't have to stay glued in place and allow our lives to fly by. We can and should be active participants and designers in our lives. We don't have to stay glued in place!!!!!